replace `row_selection_len` in datafusion after arrow-rs release https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/pull/10704

[haohuaijin]

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a follower up for #24186, https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/24186/changes#diff-0904e5d49ab91934b508af45cee3e7f584302e7397d210e53f23f44eba5b40c1R328-R334

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[haohuaijin]

take